Do you suspect your lover, partner or spouse of cheating on you? Look out for a few particular signs of infidelity.
A partner will display new behaviors, change their habits or even partially restructure their everyday life in order to make room for the affair. An affair or cheating cannot be accommodated so easily in the normal everyday life of a marriage or intimate relationship.
Pay attention to certain behaviors or changes in your partner’s everyday life and look at them objectively. These sample signs can tell you whether your partner is among them:
Mood swings
Many of cheating partners are overwhelmed with the double love life and the constant risk of being caught.
If the cheated partner becomes suspicious, questions about appointments are answered sensitively and aggressively by the unfaithful partner.
If you approach your partner on suspicion of infidelity, it is not uncommon for them to lose their temper and, because of “this terrible insinuation”, or to “ice out” and avoid the partner for days.
Pay particular attention to the reaction of your partner and whether it seems rehearsed.
The sex becomes less or more
Pay special attention to your sex life because in the event of an affair your partner will either have less or more sex with you in order to satisfy their guilty conscience. It is also noticeable if the partner suddenly wants to try out new sex practices with you, but has already mastered them very well.
New perfume and changed appearance
Your partner has a sudden new interest in fitness or has a suddenly very well-groomed appearance, uses an atypical perfume or dresses differently? It doesn’t have to mean the partner is having an affair, but there is the saying “A new love means a new life”.
My partner is always at work and has a lot of overtime
The vast majority of partners use the excuses “overtime” or “it took longer in the office” to see their affair during this period. The partner is also very difficult or impossible to reach during this period and, when asked, refers to the inaccessibility due to work.
The special handling of the smartphone
If you want to stay in touch with your affair, you have to keep in touch. Very often it happens that strangers get a second secret cell phone with a different number.
Of course, there is also the beginner’s method where your partner locks thier mobile phone with an unknown code or a Face ID or similar all at once.
The cell phone is also no longer left out of sight. Even in the bathroom and showering, the mobile phone is always with your partner. WhatsApp messages are hidden and the affair is saved under a different, inconspicuous name.
Suddenly new hobbies and the fitness mania
In many relationships it happens that the unfaithful partner suddenly starts new time-consuming hobbies. We have also seen several times that unfaithful partners have used the gym or excessive exercise as an excuse to be absent or as a meeting point for the affair.
“I see signs for infidelity and finally want to have clarity!”
If you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, contact us and one of our detectives will advise you non-bindingly and discreetly on your matter.
